With the festive season here, it’s time to spread joy and love through the magic of gifting. But finding the perfect present can be tricky, especially when people value different things. Instead of getting a thoughtless gift simply for the sake of not showing up empty-handed at Secret Santa, make loved ones feel truly cherished through love languages. Whether your special someone is all about words of affirmation, acts of service or thrives on quality time, our love language gift guide will speak to their heart.

What Are Love Languages?

Love languages are a way of understanding and expressing emotional affection in relationships. The concept, popularised by Dr. Gary Chapman, suggests that people have different preferences for giving and receiving love.

There are five primary love languages: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch.

Each person tends to have a dominant love language, depending on how they feel most loved and valued. Understanding your loved one’s love language can greatly enhance communication and connection in a relationship.

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Love Language Gift Guide

Find your partner the perfect gift this festive season with our love language gift guide.

Words of Affirmation

For those who value verbal expressions of love, a personalised gift that speaks volumes is key. Consider a custom-made journal filled with heartfelt messages, or perhaps a jar of love notes that they can read whenever they need a pick-me-up. Wordsmiths will appreciate a stylish personalised pen or a book of poetry that captures the essence of your feelings.

For a truly special gift, get them Cards for Conversation, it’s perfect for those who appreciate a good heart-to-heart or also value quality time spent together. Be Kind Journals are also ideal for everyday journalers and personal reflections.

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Acts of Service

If your loved one values acts of service, then get creative. Offer a coupon book filled with promises to do chores, cook a special meal, or run errands. Practical gifts, like a day of pampering or a thoughtful DIY project, will show that you’re willing to invest time and effort into making their life easier and making them feel ‘heard’.

Create customisable gift vouchers on Canva, which partners, friends and family can redeem. They’re super easy to make and are more presentable than paper coupons.

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Receiving Gifts

For those who feel loved through the act of receiving gifts, the options are endless. Think beyond material possessions and consider experiences. Tickets to a concert, a weekend getaway, or a subscription box tailored to their interests can be a thoughtful way to show that you know what truly makes their heart skip a beat.

If they also appreciate quality time, consider taking them to Kirstenbosch Summer Sunset Concerts for a picnic on the lawn before the show. If they’re a creative person, surprise them with one of these creative workshop experiences.

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Quality Time

Quality time enthusiasts value shared experiences, so plan activities that bring you closer. A cooking class, a cosy movie night, or a weekend retreat can be perfect options. If distance is a factor, consider planning a virtual movie night together.

If they’re a foodie, get them a Dineplan gift voucher, that way, they can finally visit that restaurant they’ve been meaning to try. Think a retreat might speak to their soul? Plan a memorable trip at one of these glamping getaways and eco-retreats.

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Physical Touch

For those who speak the language of physical touch, consider gifts that allow for connection. A couples’ massage, cosy matching blankets, or even a sentimental piece of jewellery can be a tangible reminder of your physical presence and affection.

For a cosy evening under the stars, cuddle up beside your partner at The Galileo Open Air Cinema, or visit Babylonstoren Spa for a day of relaxation.

Love baking? Try one of these fun festive baking projects over the holiday season.